Minute Men
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Is it really true that you can't help blowing your load 57 seconds post initial thrust? I've been told, eh hem, that men can't help it; that when they're about to cum there's nothing they can do and that it's not about their being selfish, but about basic ejaculation physics.
But I call bullshit.
In a recent conversation it was argued that since I don't have a cock I can't possibly argue as to what it is or is not capable of. I kindly informed that cock owner that I'd sure as hell fucked enough of them to know that they don't all cum in a minute. Some actually make it two or even three minutes. But not many.
Being a spooge depository really loses it's appeal if there's nothing in it for me. I enjoy sex. I enjoy giving head. I enjoy new positions. The idea of making love lost it's fairytale appeal long ago and now I just want to be fucked. Considering the fact that a great number of wives I know would rather have lobotomy's than any form of sex involving their participation, it wouldn't kill the cock owner to give my orgasm needs a little more attention. Yes, I realize women bitch about this all. the. time. But I don't care, it's my orgasm on the line and my right to have it.
Naturally I can be sympathetic to genuine physical ailments such as premature ejaculation or other ED's. And, believe it or not, I can also sympathize with the minute men. Truth is, if my clit is hit just right I am, dare I admit, a minute woman. I can cum in 20 seconds flat if the rub is on target. Knowing this and knowing that my needs are still left to chance merely because the ejaculator claims he cannot be stopped, well, pisses me off. It's not rocket science we're talking about. See clit. Play with clit. Girl cums. Done.
Side note: for the love of all things holy, men, when your girl is mounted on top and going strong do not -under any circumstance- change position, thrust or motion simply because you can't contain your excitement when you sense she's getting close to full throttle. Doing so will almost always result in immediate bodily harm. Why? Because when you do that we tend to lose it and I can't speak on behalf of all women, of course, but if I'm just seconds away from peeling paint off the walls and you rob me of that…well, things are going to ugly very fast.
Getting to the gritty, this isn't a post of much substance but rather a plea for help. Yes, we Girlspoke hoochies are not without personal strife despite our seemingly perfect lives and gorgeous appearances. I turn to you, my internet, in a time of need–not just for me, but for all those women fighting the big fight against the minute men in their lives. Offer up your tips, ideas or suggestions for bringing in some much needed overtime for the minute men players. Speaking on my own behalf, it would be so very appreciated.
Very,very appreciated.
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— 21 July 2007 @ 2:13 pm
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Ladies on top - the friction is different so I’ve always been able to last longer that way - let the lady have as many orgasms as she can, roll her over and have my turn (sadly, I only get the one orgasm, unless she wants to wait a bit…)
I’ve never heard any complaints about this methid (other than muscles that don’t get much use tend to end up sore!)
I believe most guys should be able to recognize when they start to get close to the point of no return. If they need to hold back, changing positions, or stroke speed/depth can change the sensation and hence prolong the point of no return.
But there is indeed a point of no return JB.
I think these men just haven’t spent enough time training for the big game!
lazyJ
Once upon a time, a guy asked a girl,
“Will you marry me?” The girl said
“No”
and she lived happily ever after and went shopping, drank martinis with friends, always had a clean house, never had to cook, had a closet full of shoes and handbags, stayed skinny, and was never farted on.
The End
The next to last paragraph–shear genius. Every man should have to read that before being mounted.
If a guy can’t last, it’s his own selfish ass or he’s just been thoughtless in his youth thinking he could’nt help it.
I can last as long as I want until she is satisfied, then I get mine. Even with my first girlfriend. Discipline and practice is all it takes, and alot of masterbation.
Also being in good shape is so important for the man since some women need a good fucking sometimes for a solid 30min. before they can have an orgasm. I’ve had girlfriends who thought they couldn’t have an orgasm until I gave them good foreplay
before a good 30min-60min. of finding which position works for her.
He just has to care more about your pleasure than anything else, cause we can always get ours.
I guess that’s why I’ve always been so apreciated by my girlfriends
“In terms of actual duration of intercourse, the 1948 Kinsey Report found that ‘for perhaps three-quarters of all males, orgasm is reached within two minutes’ of intercourse, but Hunt’s 1974 study found that the average duration of intercourse had increased dramatically, to 10 to 14 minutes, in the intervening 26 years. This dramatic change in the societal norm for duration of intercourse has increased the distress of men who suffer from premature ejaculation.” So… it could be worse. You could have been your grandmother.
Yes, you do have a right to have it and expect one…one way or another. I don’t know if anything I say is going to be helpful to you but here I go.
I started puberty early (at age 9.) I started masturbating at age 12. But I had never been with anyone else sexually or romantically, until age 18. I’m still with him today. I lucked out!
He’s never had a problem with control or any ED as of yet. He’s 47 now, was 39 when we got together. No he doesn’t take any pills of any sort, either
He is INCREDIBLY attentive to my needs sexually and otherwise. Thankfully, I’m also very easily multiply orgasmic. A lot of women are not. However through penetration, it’s not always easy for a woman TO climax (as I’m sure you’re well aware)
So if the man is willing to experiment with positions, toys, lots of foreplay, oral, masturbation (or mutual masturbation) A LOT can be accomplished long before penetration begins.
I’ve also found for myself, anal sex makes me have very explosive orgasms! A lot of women are not into anal, but if you try it with just a finger or slim line vibe with a LOT of waterbased lube It may be the best thing you tried … your other hand can be free to use a toy or manually stimulate your clit and you also wouldn’t need a man there to achieve it either!
As I said, I never experienced this personally, but have you ever suggested to a man you were with who did not have a long staying power, to possibly invest in a cock ring? I’ve heard they can work wonders.