The Truth About Girls And Casual Sex
Stamped: August 29th, 2007 | Toggle Similar
Tagged: blue balls, casual sex, life lessons, nsa sex, sex talk, women love sex too.
Guys seem to be moving in slow motion in regards to what women will and won’t do. I see it everyday with the men I deal with and the ones that I am related to and realize that they really don’t get how far women have come when it comes to sex! Many guys are still livin’ ol’ school and thinking that they need to throw in some sweet words or pretend that they feel something that they don’t just to get laid.
Newsflash: Women like to get fucked without the romantic entanglement just as much as the next guy!
Men keep making the same mistake over and over: they aren’t upfront about the fact that all they want is pussy. I know that I’m going to get a shit load of emails from men saying that the reason for this is that women want more, or that we’re too easily offended or put off by such a brazen request, blah, blah, fucken blah.
It’s time to get your tail out from between your legs and fess up. Repeat after me: I think you’re hot, but I am NOT AT ALL interested in a relationship. I would however love to lick and pleasure every inch of you on a no-strings basis.
It’s that simple.
It may seem brash and chances are that you’ll encounter a few rejections, but that’s no different than your odds when you ask a girl out on a regular date—whatever that is these days.
Example of why your way doesn’t work:
Boy sets out having no interest in a romantic attachment.
Said boy then meets uber sexy girl who also happens to be sweet and all around amazing.
Boy carries on as though he is smitten—‘hooked’ if you will.
Boy and girl have many conversations about everything under the sun.
Girl starts to have very strong feelings for boy.
Girl also believes that he really cares about her and is as smitten as he claimed to be.
Boy still wants to fuck said girl, but nothing more.
Girl starts to see that boy doesn’t really feel the way he claimed.
Sadly, girl is in so deep that she’s torn between her contempt for having been misled and her strong feelings and desire for him.
Girl and boy have wicked, amazing, mind-blowing, toe-curling, ultra passionate sex.
Girl tries to not care for boy so much and just enjoy the moment, but is confused by boy's occasional expressions of tenderness and wants to believe that they actually mean something.
Boy and girl start fighting when her resentment floats to the surface.
Girl decides to forget boy exists even though it is really hard.
This goes back and forth for awhile and boy periodically sucks her back in by saying things that he knows she wants to hear.
Eventually girl gets sick of games and wonders why boy had to pretend that he wanted more instead of having been upfront. Her physical attraction was enough that she would have been more than happy to fuck him silly, NSA, if he had been upfront and not allowed (encouraged) her to feel more. Now girl is so exhuasted by the games that she has given up.
Now boy will probably never again enjoy the sweetness of her pussy, her soft, vanilla scented skin or the feel her amazing touch again.
The lesson here: STOP LYING!
Be upfront about what you want. It is not women who complicate things; it is this miscommunication from day one that fucks up your chances of having the most incredible sex of your life without complications of the heart!
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Haaaaaaallelujah!!!!!!!!! Thank you for posting this!!!!!! All men need to read this!!!!
OMG - dead on! Thanks for summarizing so perfectly what ends up happening every time…grrrr!
hi, my name is jp…
and i’m a pussyaholic…
show me the pussy!
THANK YOU!!! It’s guys who are perpetuating this insane notion that women are not into casual sex. They are so full of themselves that they assume any woman will fall head over heels in love with them, so they pretend to feel the same way just to get some action. As you wrote, if they were just up front with what they wanted they would be quite shocked to find out that there are a lot of women out there who are comfortable enough with their own sexuality and just want to get some action too…no strings attached.
well every girl is diffrent
some want to just fuck other want to talk then fuck
its hard to tell wht girls want and its hard to even just go up to a girl and say i dont want a relationship i just want some pussy cause it just is
Oh mah goo’ness! This was how it was for me, some years ago. I didn’t wanna get caught up and was kind of mad at the man for not coming out and saying it. He was verrry fluent in “temptationese”, all I really wanted at the time was a phuckbuddy. Even tho I did catch feelings, it was short-lived. You could tell that’s where it was headed…no real conversation outside of the bedroom, after we made it to that level.
About 20% of men can expect to have casual sex with women. The other 80% will simply not be chosen by women who want to have casual sex. An exception, of course, is fat women: they have very few options. The fact that women also like sex does very little for the 80%: it just means their girlfriends are likely to cheat (with the 20%).
A little reality for you,
Andy
love it..found u via PaulaD….why have I been this girl….?? *sigh*
ROFL man this is just the perfect plain str8 up spit it as it is post. And I’ve read some shit I’ve never seen or thought in my life O_O
how refreshing to hear it from a female point of view.
do you mind if i link your blog on mine?
You said it straight up. Tell it as is, otherwise you’ll loose the best chances in life. Or better yet the best sex you’ll ever experience in life. Awsome writing….”more…..more”… please!!
The issue isn’t that guys don’t know that they can get casual sex, they know this. Hell, isn’t that the basis for prostitution. The truth is, men like the hunt BUT what makes the hunt interesting is getting their victim to love them too. It’s sadistic, but a fact! So again, let’s not kid ourselves, most men who engage in promiscuous sex do so because they are unfulfilled human beings and use sex and love to artificially affirm themselves. Unfortunately, when a person is this unfulfilled they are in constant need of a fix. Hence, they move on to the next kill constantly in search of feeling like a whole humanbeing which of course never happens unless they make peace with who they are and practices true self acceptance.